The Postcard

Spilling the days no memory will restore,
time's fountain climbs its own perpetual core.
The edges are ragged, all tattered and torn,
with the sepia tones of yester year
washing over the faded scene.

The summers and winter have slowly passed
leaving memories of a love once lost,
captured in the inscription, though short and sweet,
scrawled in a tattered corner.

The ink, slowly fading, almost non-existent,
'with love to thee Bessy,
you have stolen my heart'.
Only the faded picture holds the key.

A bridge, over water.
A brook?.....maybe a stream?
Surrounded by flowers - their colour, unknown.
This bridge, this place, has meaning.

A vision of butterflies flashes in the back of her mind,
She can feel the cool breeze of a spring day.
Is it the day she met this man?
But her memory.....
She knows it has some significance,
Something to unlock her past.

The back is bare.
No stamp. No indication of where it might be from.
Where the place may be, what the year is.
Nothing.
1915 - but why that year does she think of?
Men in uniform march the streets -
but what significance is this to her?
There is something about the bridge...

The times she has looked at it,
stared at the inscription,
hours on end, but nothing.
The card is 'well worn'
like a good book that has been read many times.
But still nothing.

It is placed back in the drawer,
gently, with obvious care,
as if it has some sentimental meaning
she is unaware of.
'Better left until another day'.
The drawer closes with a 'click'.
and the past is left to lie.


c. 1999

Luggagitis....Update!

As in my previous entry, Luggagitis, I lamented over the issues I have with packing for holidays, mainly for my epic US adventure. So did I succeed? You be the judge..... 

Leaving Australia

Allowance = 2 x bags @ 23kg (50lbs) each

Tim = 1x bag @ 18kg (39.6lbs)

Sherry = 1 x bag @ 19.7kg (43.3lbs)

Leaving USA

Allowance = 2 x bags @ 23kg (50lbs) each

Tim = 1x bag @ 22.3kg (49lbs)

Sherry = 1x bag @ 22.5kg (49.5lbs)

Joint Luggage = 1x bag @ 19.5kg (43lbs)

= SUCCESS!!!!

Spring Cleaning......in Winter

We have a lot of crap. I don't use that term lightly. We just do.

Fact.

One of the downsides of having your own place is that, over time, it is slowly filled with a lot of useless things, or multiples of things, that you don't really need, but hang onto. When Tim and I moved in together he already had a house full of stuff, which is to be expected when he had been living in the place for 10 years prior. Add into the mix all of my stuff and all the donations of extra items from our families over the years, put all of this into a small place with a serious lack of storage and, well, you have a problem. So after all the years of procrastination, it's finally time to get rid of it all. My goal for the rest of this year, and as I head into my 30's, is to become as minimalistic as possible ( for me anyway). Now I don't expect to completely transform and banish all my hoarding ways, that is going to take time, but after beating my issues with Luggagitis earlier this year, I am going to give it my best shot. It's time.

So, how am I going to achieve this monstrous task? Well, thankfully, Tim is on board with the plan. He has come up with the idea of two boxes -

1. Rubbish

2. Salvation Army

and at the end of every week we need to 'collectively' have at least one box full, so that by the time Christmas comes around, our lives should be 'de-cluttered'. Seeing as Christmas is 5 months away, I think that is pretty do-able. However, knowing my own track record with throwing stuff out and the tendency to 'over sentimentalise' objects, I have also given myself 3 simple rules:

1. The standard 12 month rule (which I never usually follow) - if an item has not been used/worn in 12 months it has to go! No 'ifs' or 'buts' or 'I might use it' - it's gone!

2. If I find something I 'forgot I owned' I clearly don't need it, so it goes.

3. If I own multiple/excess amounts of any item - it goes!

At this stage I need to be pretty ruthless on myself. I really want to avoid in 10 years time, being featured on one of those 'excessive hoarders' shows. So, by actually writing about this and putting it out into the world, I am hoping it's going to force me into actually achieving this goal.

Stay tuned for updates on my progress....

Gone with the Wind

A few months ago, on a Saturday, 'Gone with the Wind' was playing on television. I hadn't seen this movie in years, and as much as I wanted to sit down and immerse myself in the world of Scarlett and Rhett, I had to go to work. But it got me thinking, I had never actually read Margaret Mitchell's Pulitzer Prize winning book. So I loaded it onto my Kindle and over the course of the next couple of months (it's a long book and I was on my honeymoon for a few weeks) I finally finished this epic novel. So I decided to go back and re-visit the film and see how close the adaptation was.


Now this entry is by no means going to compare the two mediums blow by blow, but more my thoughts and feelings on them. I absolutely adored the book, by the first chapter I understood by it had been such a phenomenon in 1936. It's such a fascinating, page turning story with strong, intriguing characters, exciting plot twists with actual history thrown into the mix. I was pulled into the world of Scarlett O'Hara and the 1860's Deep South, the characters grew on me, and my thoughts and opinions changed from chapter to chapter until I was weeping at Melanie's death in the final pages. I really was deeply moved by this book, it took a few weeks before I could start a new one as I felt I needed to digest and analyse this epic story and it's characters. So, with the anticipation of anyone who has had a novel they treasured turned into the film, I made some popcorn and put GWTW into the dvd player.


The reception of the film on it's opening in 1939 was phenomenal. It is still classified as one of the greatest films ever made. It had a stellar cast; Vivien Leigh, Clark Gable, Olivia De Havilland, Leslie Howard and Hattie McDaniel, to name but a few and won 10 Academy Awards (it was the first film to ever win more than 5). The lead up to the film's release had also been sensationalised in the news and papers, everything from the casting of Scarlett (which every actress in Hollywood and beyond wanted to play) to the firing of George Cukor as Director during filming, but the final product turned into a world wide smash. So my thoughts on this film adaption....72 years since its premiere....


I really enjoyed it, for what it was. The casting of Scarlett and Rhett, in my opinion, was perfect. I couldn't imagine them being portrayed by anyone else at that time, it was if they were lifted straight from the book. I loved that films at that time were an 'event' that people attended. I love that the film has an overture, interval music, entracte and such a strong score (that's the musician in me). The problem I did have with the film, and this is due to the fact that the book itself is over 1000 pages, is that, in writing the screen play and editing the book, a lot of the character and plot exposition was eliminated.


Now I have the utmost respect for people who can take a novel and turn it into a film or play and can see the piece as a whole and then work out what to cut without affecting the overall plot and message of the piece - I know I could never do that - just come and look at my house and see how much stuff I have - culling is not really in my nature. But with GWTW I found so much of the essence of the book, and what I loved about it, was missing, and I think was a detriment to the film, the audience and the lovers of the book. These are a few examples of things I didn't quite felt work.


Act 1

• I felt the plot was a bit like a dot to dot drawing. They had picked the 'best moments' of the first half of the book and quickly got to them, which meant you lost all the character back story, you lost the build up over the 4 year period in Atlanta of Rhett and Scarlett's relationship (which I think is really important to be able to understand them as a whole by the end) and by cutting out so much of the war and the fall of Atlanta, you don't appreciate the second half with the returning to Tara and the rebuilding of Atlanta and Scarlett's actions once back in Atlanta.
• What happened to Scarlett's child to Charles?
• Why was the character of Will cut? Which begs you to think who is looking after Tara when Scarlett goes back to Atlanta? and who is Sue-Ellen going to marry?
• Why did they change the order of the weddings (Melanie and Ashley get married after Scarlett and Charles and Scarlet does NOT cry at the wedding) and also the ring donation in Atlanta (it is Scarlett who donates her ring first and Melanie gets her strength from this action and donates hers as well) both of these changes put Scarlett in a bad light.
• Why did they feel the need to have Ellen's body in the front room, saying she had died the night before, when he had actually died days before and they had already had her funeral - the story has enough drama without adding gratuitous things.

I would like to state though, that most of Act 1 is pretty accurate to the chain of events and what happens, I just wonder whether those who have not read the book would have a different feeling of the movie as 'under developed' or have any connection to the characters, where as those who have read the book can fill in the gaps with what they know - I guess this is the same for any novel to film translation and how the Harry Potter fans must be feeling...anyway I digress...


Now this second half annoyed me (to the point of throwing popcorn at the screen) as some things were completely WRONG for NO reason


Act 2

• This second half, I felt, was a betrayal to the book. I am fine with things being condensed and time lines altered, but I don't understand completely changing things.
• Why was the incident surrounding Gerald O'Hara's death changed? (in the film they have him chasing Wilkerson off the property, which is where he falls off his horse while jumping the fence and dies, but in the book he doesn't die until Scarlet is back in Atlanta and Sue-Ellen tries to get him to sign up as a Republican Yankee supporter when he realises what she is doing he takes off on his horse and falls off while jumping and dies, which is also further character development for Sue-Ellen and Scarlett.
• What happened to Scarlett's child to Frank?
• Why did they change the whole outcome of Scarlett marrying Frank? She is supposed to marry him, take his money he is saving to buy the mill, pay the taxes on Tara and then borrow money from Rhett to buy the mill, which becomes successful and then she purchases the second mill. When she goes home to Tara for Gerald's funeral is when she then asks Ashley to come and run one of the mills - NOT help her start the business. Also because all this is changed (and the Atlanta stuff) you don't really have an understanding as to why the 'old guard' hate Scarlett and Rhett so much and why they think she deserved the attack. Incidentally I was driven to throwing popcorn at the screen in the scene where Frank questions her running the mill and says he never wanted one - wrong!!!
• What happened to Archie? and why did they think it would be ok to amalgamate part of his storyline into Mammy's character?
• Why was Prissy an adult and not a 12 year old child?
• Why did they make Melanie's death the same time as Bonnie's when it's supposed to be months later and Scarlett needs to travel back for it, all of this helping with the relationship development of Scarlett and Rhett. Also by changing this they could not show Rhett's demise after Bonnie's death.
• Finally, I realise that for dramatic effect it helped having him pack his bags, say the famous 'frankly my dear I don't give a damn' and walk out the door, but if you've read the book you know it's night time, not day time, he has a few more lines in which he says he won't divorce her, will come back from time to time to save her reputation, then goes up to his room. Scarlett does not have 'reminders of Tara' swimming thru her head and there is definitely more hope that she could possibly win him back

On a side note, it has always been Hollywood legend that Clark Gable changed the script from 'frankly my dear, I don't care' to 'frankly my dear, I don't give a damn' which was a bold and exciting 'censorship' action. I am sure this is indeed true, however I tip my hat to Clark as, besides the frankly' part, that is actually what he says in the book.


So there are a few of my thoughts about the film. I still love the film for what it is, even though I have picked the plot to pieces, it still is a great piece of cinema history, but 72 years on, and even though I am not usually a fan, I think it's time for a remake. Not a film though, I would like to see a 4 part mini-series which could properly explore the whole novel. In the mean time, if you haven't read the book, I highly recommend it. As well as the characters and story, it gives a great insight into the South's opinion of the Civil War and how they were affected as a whole.

Countdown!

So it’s countdown time….finally! 10 more sleeps and we are off on our epic adventure! I can’t wait! So unfortunately…if you are reading my blog…the next few entries are going to be holiday filled! I will try to limit entries to the highlights of each city, and hopefully it will be of some interest to you, but until then…..it’s countdown time!

I have to admit I hate the few days/weeks leading up to a holiday, or anything exciting. Mainly because, as hard as I try, my brain switches into holiday mode FAR too early, making concentrating on current projects and any type of work extremely difficult! I have no motivation, except to pack my suitcase. The problem with being only a few days away is that all the major things have been done. At least with a few weeks to go, you can still be organising and booking things to keep the excitement going but now – we have picked up all our documents, our money is converted (and at a great rate I might add! Thank you world economy!), everything is booked/paid for/deposits put down, our itinerary is all done, I have made my packing list (see Luggagitis) so except for a few small jobs we are all ready to go now I just have to sit….and work…and wait….

Now, so this blog isn’t completely about me complaining about waiting to go on a holiday – because I know you all have so much sympathy for that – I thought I would send you some links to some interesting blogs I am currently following that you may also want to have a look into:

London Still – penned by the gorgeous and multi-talented Al Silber – currently based in NYC she is a writer/actor/singer/photographer – you name it – well worth a read!

Miss K Goes Forth – one of my best friends – she has just moved to London to make a career for herself in ‘the biz’ – so follow along with her epic adventures making it in the business!

Screen Writing 101 or Misadventures in WA Film – talented Perth Screen Writer Richard W Hyde – a fellow West Wing/Aaron Sorkin fan – check out his views on the industry from the Screen Writer point of view!

FLIP SIMMONS – Yes it’s in capitols – because his title is in capitols – but he has totally earned the capitols – awesome vocalist/performer – this blog is also his webpage – check out some of his tunes you won’t be sorry!

Ok, they are my plugs for this week! Now off to plan for the Andrews Sisters gig this weekend in Geraldton – if I get time next week I may pen a quick entry on how it went!

Luggagitis

I suffer from Luggagitis.

Yes it’s true.

What is Luggagitis you might ask? Well, it is the inability to be able to pack light when I travel. It’s a curse. I always seem to over pack, no matter where I go. Even if it’s just an overnight stay. I pack for any possible occasion that may arise – I make sure I have some kind of outfit/shoes/bag/underwear/jewellery to match , so that I am always prepared, but this ends up with my luggage overflowing, me stressing over weight restrictions and being charged at the airport – and no room for possible purchases on trips! It is stressful. I hate it!

I must admit, I am getting better over the years, not much, but I have made a slight improvement….so I am determined, for my upcoming trip, to break free of this disease and pack minimal, light and with only the bare essentials….no….really…I will! I have a plan……

It all starts with the shoes.

Shoes are the heaviest/bulkiest part of the packing. So I figure if I can narrow this part down, the others things should be easy! Right? It’s all about mixing and matching and, as we will be doing a LOT of walking, comfort. So I have narrowed it down to 4 pairs:

Black Sketchers
Black Boots
Black and Silver Sandals
Black Thongs (Flip Flops)

I figure black goes with everything, and it keeps all possible occasions covered. All these shoes are comfortable, the latter 2 are thin and light and will pack well and I will wear my boots on the plane…..leaving room to buy more on holiday (along with bags and hats – my downfall).

So that’s the shoes done – which pretty much means I can’t take any clothes that don’t go with these shoes! So the clothes plan – well that is going to be where, hopefully, the mix and match theory comes into play! I am going to try, like in the magazines, to take a small amount of items that can be mixed and matched to create a multiple amount of out fits – and will take up hardly any room in my suitcase. Throw in a jacket to cover possibly cool weather, and anything else I can buy on the trip. I guess the great thing about going to/from the US is the luggage allowance is so much better!

So, this is the plan to avoid another case of Luggagitis. Will it work? Will I be tearing my hair out? Will I actually be able to make a decision about what NOT to take ‘just in case I need it’, will I end up letting my husband pack for me? Stay tuned to find out…..the holiday is still 4 weeks away, but these are things I need to start planning now to avoid complete meltdown hours before boarding the plane!

Wish me luck!

Quotes

While I was re-discovering my love for the early years of Hollywood a few weeks back, I also stumbled across some great quotes from the legendary Charlie Chaplin. So I thought I would share them with you, as well as some other quotes I enjoy…..

‘A day without a laugh is a wasted day.’

‘Through humor, we see in what seems rational, the irrational; in what seems important, the unimportant. It also heightens our sense of survival and preserve our sanity.’

‘Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, but a comedy in long shot.’

‘All I need to make a comedy is a park, a policeman and a pretty girl.’

‘I remain just one thing, and one thing only, and that is a clown. It places me on a far higher plane than any politician.’

‘I do not have much patience with a thing of beauty that must be explained to be understood. If it does need additional interpretation by someone other than the creator, then I question whether it has fulfilled its purpose.’

‘Movies are a fad. Audiences really want to see live actors on a stage.’

‘Actors search for rejection. If they don’t get it the reject themselves.’

‘I went into the business for the money, and the art grew out of it. If people are disillusioned by that remark, I can’t help it. It’s the truth.’

- Charlie Chaplin

‘Don’t dream it, be it’ – Rocky Horror Picture Show

‘The prettier the flower, the further from the path’ – Stephen Sondheim (Into The Woods)

‘The trouble is Charlie, that’s what everyone does. Blames the way it is, on the way it was, on the way it never, ever, was.’ – Stephen Sondheim (Merrily We Roll Along)

‘Art, specially the stage, is an area where it is impossible to walk without stumbling. There are in store for you many unsuccessful day and whole unsuccessful seasons; there  will be great misunderstandings and deep disappointments….you must be prepared.’ – Anton Chekov

‘Build a stairway to paradise with a new step every day, tap your troubles away, sing you heart out and everything will be beautiful at the ballet’ – Tim

‘Ladies and Gentlemen take my advice, pull down your pants and slide on the ice.’ – Dr Sidney Freedman (M*A*S*H*)

‘The slotted spoon doesn’t hold much soup’ - Stephen Sondheim (Into The Woods)

‘Out flew the web and floated wide-

The mirror crack’d from side to side;

“The curse is come upon me,” cried

The Lady of Shalott.’ – Alfred Lord Tenneyson

‘Wind’s in the east, there’s a mist coming in, like something is brewing and about to begin…’ – Mary Poppins

‘Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievances that, in a year’s time, will be forgotten by us and by everybody. No, let us devote our life to worthwhile actions and feelings, to great thoughts, reall affections and enduring undertakings.’ – Andre Maurois 

‘If you reach for the stars, all you’ll get is the stars, but we’ve found a whole new spin. If you reach for the heavens, you get the stars thrown in’ – Mary Poppins

‘Time heals everything’ – Jerry Herman (Mack and Mabel)

‘You may know what you need, but to get what you want, better see that you keep what you have’ - Stephen Sondheim (Into The Woods)

‘I’d rather regret the things I have done, than the things I haven’t done’ – Lucille Ball